Large Women

Its a rainy Saturday. It doesn't rain much where I live and when it does people tend not to go out as much. However, the rain Isn't going to stop me. I haven't been downtown in a couple of weeks and I'm eager to get back.

DISCLAIMER: The names of the people and clubs have been changed to protect the innocent...and perhaps the guilty as well.

I meet up with my friend Alex. Alex knows a girl that has a group of girls coming downtown on a party bus. Its good to have girl allies in the club. Even if you don't hook up with any of them, when girls see other girls responding positively to a man they tend to assume he's alright.

We're at the bar in the downstairs part of club Swing. Club Swing is huge. There are 3 floors and a roofdeck. Due to the rain Club Swing is kinda dead, so we bounce to Schooners. Schooners is high energy. It can be very difficult to work, but Its busy and there will be opportunities to warm up. Meeting girls is like exercise. You can do it without warming up, but in doing so you risk injury.

To get going I just stand in one place and pull girls in towards me. Yes I grab the girls and no it seldom is a problem. We're taught by society not to touch and to ask for permission before being physical; but Its completely counter-prodctive and girls will respond better emotionally when you get physical quickly. The worst thing that happens is that girls tell me to stop and when that happens (rarely) I stop. The girls generally don't have to tell me when they're uncomortable. I can feel it. If there's any tension in her body I back off. If there's no tension I escalate. Study after study indicates that most communication is non-verbal and my own study(story) has confirmed it.

The first one that hits is an older chubby girl. These are not my favorite at all, but in my experience, girls are girls and what works with the chubby older women will work for supermodels. I practice on everyone. I pull her in and there's no tension. I begin to ecalate. Light touching, followed by light kissing. After that I let her go. Bait, hook, release. Its like fishing. I'm not going to keep the fish that I don't want. There are other men in the pond hungrier than I.

After warming up a bit we head back to Swing. Its busier now and time to work. I'm on the second floor and a group of girls walks by. There's one, early twenties, heavier set that looks my direction. The eye contact Isn't friendly. She's giving me a mad dog look. This is a challenge so I return the look, then I motion for her to come over. When she comes I immediately pull her in and makeout with her. There's no resistance. The fish is hooked, but I let her go. Again Its not what I want. She asks for my number and I give it to her. I have no problem giving out my number and asking for theirs. You don't have to bed every new contact, but often new contacts will result in new opportunities of some kind (club guestlist, hotter girlfriends, etc.)

I walk up to the roofdeck. Its not as good as usual due to rain, but there are people upstairs. I lock eyes with a cute redhead. Redheads and blondes are my favorites. Suddenly there's recognition. She comes over hugs me and I pick her up and swing her around, whilst she wrapps her legs around me. Women love it when I pick them up (physically.) Its Jenny. I met Jenny at a party more than a year ago. She's cute, but not hot by any stretch. However men love her because she's a lot of fun and very sexual. She makes people feel good. Good emotions equals good times. We hung out a couple of times after that, but nothing happened outside of some kissing. She started flaking on me and after awhile I lost interest. When I met her she was 20, and now she's 21. Most girls don't care about a man's age, so long as he's attractive on some level (personality, looks, vibe, social status, or some other thing she likes about you.)

Jenny: OMG! How are you? How have you been?

Its positive, so I stick around and we chat it up. I meet a couple of her friends and then I leave. Why? Neediness is the enemy. You've gotta project that you have your own shit going on and frankly...I do anyways. There's lots of girls to meet.

I'm working the room and then suddenly this girl comes up to me all excited. I don't know her, but she's obviously attracted to me. Unfortunately...she's also a bit large. Cute though and in decent shape. There's two kinds of fat. Sit around stoner fat and athletic but carrying some extra baggage. She's the latter, so I figure what the fuck. She initially thinks I'm gay, but I assure her with my actions that I'm not. I'm very physically aggresive with girls, especially when they like me. I seldom get the gay thing. I only get it when girls are really into me physically. Gotta love girls :)

She has a very hot friend. Grrr...this is shitty, but I figure maybe Alex can score with the hottie. It's in the man legal code, section 135, fatty vs. hottie, that when two guys are working two girls and one is hot, you jump on the fat girl for the sake of your friend. He will do the same for you on another occasion. He who does not jump on the fatty when a hot girl is being pulled by a friend is not a real man; and you are then obligated to Fuck his girlfiend when he goes out of town or gets locked up.

My girl asks me to find her friend a guy. Ha like she really needs the help. I text Alex and tell him to meet us. He comes soon after, but he already found a blonde cutie. Fuck...these are the player problems laies and gents. The girls are now pissed, but my girl is so into me that she can't keep her hands off. I start whispering in her ear some crazy sexual shit. Verbal and physical escalation are a powerful combination. Most guys don't do it, which is one reason why most guys have problems with women.

Her friend is getting hit on by guys and she's loving the attention, but doesn't like the guys. I get called on to rescue the friend from some Eurodude. I take her by the hand and drag her away. Then, bitch move as it is, she takes her friend away fom me ten minutes later to the VIP section. The VIP section is for guys with no game and the girls that like to take advantage of them. Sad fucks. In this life you don't EVER want to be one of those guys.

I go downstairs and find Jenny. Jenny is now loving me again and I take her to go dance. There's a reason men lead in dancing. Girls trust you a lot more if you can lead them in a dance, or elsewhere. I've met girls at Target and the moment I lead them to another section of the store they're a lot more invested and trusting.

Jenny and I dance and the sexual tension is rising. No kissing but lots of touching. Dancing is a good shortcut to get physical. We go back to chat with her friends a bit. Being cool with the fiends is very important. If they don't like you you're done. Less is more though. Just be cool and don't try too hard. The friends like me, but the birthday girl in the group is being dramatic and having a meltdown. I exit. Bad emotions equals bad times.

The girls from before are now tired of the VIP dorks and I'm getting texts asking where I am. I tell them to come downstairs and they do. My girl is all up on me. When girls think they might lose you they step up their game in a big way. We're making out and grinding. A lot of guys say not to be too aggressive in the club, because Its cheesy. However, in my experience Its easier to pull the girls out once you get them horny enough.

Its closing time and we head outside. The girls get into a cab and my girl says she'll text me the hotel address. They're in the process of moving to my city from a shittier city. Ideally they'd be pure tourists. Tourist girls will have all kinds of sex, because there are no social repercussions for their actions. For this reason goofy marketing tactics like "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas" are popular with girls. An ex of mine called it "geographically single." Girls aren't allowed by society to be permiscuous, but in their heart of hearts they're as horny as any man, maybe moreso at certain times.

I walk off and decide to work the street for a bit. You can pick girls right off the street if your game is good and the right girl comes along. I'm having some fun and then I see Jenny coming towards me. She's got some drama going on (not a big surprise) and wants me to walk with her to meet her ride. We're walking and she starts telling me why this is the "worst night of her life." Jesus H. Christ. While men and women in Afghansitan and Iraq are having their heads cut off, poor little Jenny's guy friends got into a street scuffle and her girlfriend acted like a bitch. To her though this night is the "worst."

The funny thing about drama is that it makes girls horny. If a guy is having a bad time, horniess gets shut down. We just want the bad feeling to go away. For girls any emotion gives her a rise. I use Jenny's drama to my advantage. When she talks about how bad things are I just re-direct her attention.

Adam: Yeah it really sucks and you had a rough night, but Its so nice that we get a chance to re-connect. how cool is that.

She agrees and soon after we're making out in the street. She's getting turned on, but says

Jenny: No you're making me act bad. We can't do this right now.

I still think I can pull it off. So after backing off I try to re-escalate. Unfortunately Its not happening. WE meet up with her friend and the party is over. Ill get her another time. In the meantime I've got a text from the other girl, so I head back to my car.

I drive to the hotel knowing full well that sex is about to go down. When I get there the energy of the girls has dropped. This is the problem with alcohol and clubs. However, I know that I can bring it back with just a little physical touch. I pick my girl up and start dancing with her. Emotions always follow a change in physiology.

Soon after were in the bedroom and Its going down. I'm biting her nipples. She tells me I'm not doing it hard enough. This is only the second time I've had a girl want me to bite her nipples really hard. Typically nipples are sensitie and girls like a little nibble, but not a vampire, skin piercing bite. This girl wants it though, so I give it to her. Its going good...then she stops me. Girls will oftne resist right before sex. So I back off, re-initiate and Its going further. Wash, rinse, repeat. She Isn't having it. I think the fact that her friend wasn't getting laid was a problem. I've had sex with girls before that had this same issue, but in this case the problem was enough for her to not get laid. Sometimes girls will agree that both have to be getting laid or no dice. Sometimes girls just get weird. Either way, Its 5:00 AM and I've had enough.

I go home with a hard dick and a though it my head...why were the larger women attacking me tonight? Dr. Wayne Dyer would say that I manifested the large women into my life. He might be onto something. When you start with one chubby girl you start to notice others. The others feel this energy and it just continues. Maybe I should start with the hottest girl in the club? As I don't really care on what happens Its not a bad idea. Girls are girls and I've had quite a range. Attracting the ones I want is a roll of the dice. For this reason I keep the net open in the event the big fish (or slimmer one in this case) comes along, and she always does eventually.